Asexuals, what do you think?

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Permalink Reply by Lelani on February 2, 2010 at 1:24pm

No effin way! I personally couldn't do it because sex in a relationship for me has to be very intense and passionate. If it's non-existent, then that equals a friendship in my book, not a relationship. I think a person just has to know themselves and what their needs are and if sex is not a high desire for them then it should work out.

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Permalink Reply by guitargrrrl76 on February 3, 2010 at 5:11pm

How much do I like them? How intense is our emotional connection? Does that person like to kiss and cuddle and be physically intimate in others ways other than sex? If I am really really into them and we have an amazing emotional connection and they liked to be affectionate in other ways than intercourse, then I think I could do it.

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Permalink Reply by Edgea22 on February 3, 2010 at 5:45pm

guitargrrrl76 said:

How much do I like them? How intense is our emotional connection? Does that person like to kiss and cuddle and be physically intimate in others ways other than sex? If I am really really into them and we have an amazing emotional connection and they liked to be affectionate in other ways than intercourse, then I think I could do it.

Like them enough to see a real intense lasting relationship. Kissing a little, cuddling yes, but not much beyond a lite makeout. But willing to try new things.

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Permalink Reply by Lunakiss on February 9, 2010 at 9:56am

Sorry. No. I have a high sex drive. I'll have to dump her.

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Permalink Reply by Nkisi on February 19, 2010 at 11:48pm

sounds like a good friendship... or at least a sensual one. most successful 'straights' have tons of fun without penetration.

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Permalink Reply by GodsavetheQueer on March 1, 2010 at 2:01pm

Sure, if we had an understand that i could sex someone else. but i mean i feel that way even if i'm gettin laid in a relationship. the body is one thing; i like to fuck. But when i give my heart to someone that's another thing entirely. I think people fail to see that.

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Permalink Reply by Mlle d. Sade 1 day ago

I think a romantic relationship without sex has the potential to be a more powerful force than one with sex. I could do it. Even if I weren't really head over heels in love because I know what it feels like to be left because you won't put out. It's not fair and I'm not going to do it. And I'll love the day I find someone I don't need to have sex with to be able relate to.

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Permalink Reply by Dirty Sanchez 1 hour ago

Only if I could fuck someone else.

However, I can only have sex with people I have a deep emotional connection with. I'm not sure if I could honestly have strong feelings for two people at the same time? I'm a very sexual person when I'm with someone I truely care about, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't want be dry humping her leg everytime I felt frisky. I'm human, I have needs, I'd be too frustrated. I couldn't do it for an eternity. A year or so, fine. But for the entire relationship? I'd probably cry a lot.

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